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You always hurt the one you love. Or in this case, the one you used to love. The war between Kelly Rutherford and her ex-husband Daniel Giersch continues, as the Gossip Girl actress was granted a deposition with her ex today (September 24) to discuss their ongoing child custody dispute involving their two children Hermés, 3, and Helena Grace, 1.

RadarOnline reports that it will be strictly limited to child custody and visitation, not the issue surrounding Daniel’s visa status. Kelly had previously attempted to get Daniel's visa revoked on the grounds that she was concerned her ex, a German businessman, would flee the country with their kids. However the judge ruled today that him taking the children to Germany was “very low.”

Gossip Girl star Kelly Rutherford is a doting mom to 1-year-old daughter Helena and 3-year-old son Hermés. The actress recently shared Helena's latest milestones with US Weekly, revealing that Helena has begun walking, and added that her daughter is "talking and is so expressive. She is talking with her brother... They were watching a video this morning and talking! It was very cute."

Big brother Hermés is doing a great job as big brother, reports mom, "He is really good and protective!" Of balancing single motherhood and work, the actress said,

I have a lot of time off. I worked for so many years and I really take the time now because my kids are little. I know soon they will be in school so I am really enjoying being with them. I had three months off from work and I really just spent it with them. Anytime I am not working, I am with the kids."

Rutherford, who split from husband Daniel Giersch while 3 months pregnant with Helena, has been spotted lately spending time with Jason Bird. The two have reportedly been dating for two months.

One-year-old Helena Grace tagged along on a business meeting with her mom Kelly Rutherford at Ease Entertainment in West Hollywood, California today (June 24). The mother-daughter duo looked to be in great spirits as they left the office together.

We last spotted the Gossip Girl star and her daughter enjoying a sunny stroll in Beverly Hills earlier this week. Kelly and her ex Daniel Giersch are also parents to 3-year-old Hermés.

Kelly Rutherford and her gorgeous girl Helena Grace, 1, made a stylish duo as they were spotted out for a stroll in Beverly Hills, California yesterday (June 18). The pair were joined on their outing by the Gossip Girl star's sister.

We last saw the 41-year-old actress out and about with her 3-year-old son Hermés last week. The kids' dad is Kelly's ex, entrepreneur Daniel Giersch.

A smiling Kelly Rutherford was spotted toting her barefoot son Hermés, 3, in Beverly Hills, California today (June 13). Hermes' little sister Helena Grace, 1, was also with the pair, though she stayed hidden under the cover of her car seat.

More than a year after her divorce from Daniel Giersch it seems the Gossip Girl star has found love again with her new beau Jason Bird.

"Kelly has known him for years," a source close to the actress reveals. "They are old friends, she really trusts him, and she feels like he is exactly the opposite of her ex-husband."

Kelly Rutherford and her sister took a stroll with Kelly's daughter Helena Grace, who turns 1 tomorrow, on Robertson Blvd. in Beverly Hills, Calif. yesterday (June 5). The trio wore their sun hats on the sunny Sunday afternoon.

The Gossip Girl star has been seen all over town with her new beau, Jason Bird.

Kelly and her ex-husband Daniel Giersch are also parents to 3 1/2-year-old son Hermés.

Gossip Girl star Kelly Rutherford was all smiles as she enjoyed an drink and a stroll with her daughter Helena Grace - who turns 1 next Tuesday - and her new man in Los Angeles, Calif. on Thursday (June 3).

Kelly’s new mystery man is Jason Bird, and the couple have been dating for several weeks now, Life & Style reports.

Kelly and her ex-husband Daniel Giersch are also parents to 3 1/2-year-old son Hermés.

Gossip Girl star Kelly Rutherford treated her son Hermés, 3, to a couple of new toys today while out and about in Beverly Hills, California (June 2). He's getting so big!

Kelly, who divorced her husband Daniel Giersch last year, has been spotted spending time with a new mystery man recently.

"Kelly has known him for years," a source recently told E! "They are old friends, she really trusts him, and she feels like he is exactly the opposite of her ex-husband."

Kelly's rep confirmed the romance, saying only, "Kelly does indeed have a new man in her life, but that's all we're sharing for now."

The actress and her ex are also parents to daughter Helena, who'll be celebrating her 1st birthday next week.

Pretty pair! Kelly Rutherford carried her daughter Helena Grace, 1 next month, as they arrived at the Alice + Olivia Tea Party in West Hollywood on Sunday (May 23). The Gossip Girl actress and her baby girl showed off their matching smiles while the paparazzi took their photo.

Kelly and her ex-husband Daniel Giersch are also parents to 3 1/2-year-old son Hermés.

A smiley Kelly Rutherford spent the day with her 3 1/2-year-old son Hermés and her new man in Beverly Hills on Wednesday (May 19). The trio went shopping at a few toy stores after dining at a local eatery.

Hermés played with finger puppets and got a treat from the gum ball machine while mom enjoyed holding hands and laughing with her main squeeze.

Kelly and her ex-husband, Daniel Giersch, are also parents to daughter Helena Grace, 1 next month. The 41-year-old Gossip Girl actress filed for divorce when she was just three months pregnant with Helena.

Gossip Girl star Kelly Rutherford enjoyed an afternoon stroll with her daughter Helena Grace, 1 next month, their family dog and her new beau. The happy couple walked hand in hand toward Kelly’s home in West Hollywood, Calif. today (May 18).

We first spotted Kelly and her mystery man cuddling up together last week.

Kelly and her ex-husband, Daniel Giersch, are also parents to 3 1/2-year-old son Hermés. The 41-year-old actress filed for divorce when she was just three months pregnant with Helena.

Let the gossip begin. Kelly Rutherford was spotted holding hands and cuddling up to a mystery man alongside her daughter Helena, 1 next month, in Beverly Hills, Calif. on Thursday (May 13). Big brother Hermés, 3 1/2, was not spotted with the trio.

Looks like Kelly has entered the world of dating again. Earlier this year, the Gossip Girl actress said she wasn't ready to meet someone at that point:

Dating is not really my focus at the moment. If it happens, great, but I have the two most beautiful little ones, a great job, and it's really all-consuming."

Kelly filed for divorce from the kids' father, German businessman Daniel Giersch, when she was just three months pregnant with Helena.

Gossip Girl mom Kelly Rutherford enjoyed a day with her two children Helena, 10 months, and Hermes, 3 1/2, yesterday (May 10). The trio were joined by family members of the actress as they headed to the Brentwood Country Mart in Brentwood, Calif.

Kelly split with the childrens' father, German businessman Daniel Giersch early in her pregnancy with Helena. Her Gossip Girl co-star Matthew Settle is in a similar situation, having recently split from his wife while having a young daughter. The two are said to have bonded over the similar experiences.

Kelly Rutherford spent a fun afternoon with her two children - son Hermés, 3 1/2, and daughter Helena, 10 months - at the Malibu market playground on Sunday (May 2). Kelly carried Helena around and let her play in the sandbox while Hermés, dressed in a red, wanted to read a storybook with mom.

The 41-year-old Gossip Girl star filed for divorce from the kids' father, German businessman Daniel Giersch, when she was just three months pregnant with Helena. "It’s challenging," Kelly said of their custody battle. "I certainly never expected the emotional roller coaster. It was tough to be pregnant and have this happen. It’s made me stronger."

It was a girls' day out today for actress Kelly Rutherford and her daughter Helena Grace, 10 months, who were spotted heading for lunch in Hollywood, California with a friend (April 10).

The 41-year-old Gossip Girl star, who is also mom to 3-year-old son Hermes, recently dished on childbirth, saying of her labor and delivery with Helena:

I had a lot more support and it made it a lot easier. I had a mid-wife with me, even though I delivered at the hospital. I had someone with me that I knew knew what was going on. It was really, really helpful.”

Mommy-and-me time! Gossip Girl star Kelly Rutherford and her daughter Helena, 10 months tomorrow, went shopping on Robertson Blvd. in Hollywood on Tuesday (April 6). The mother-daughter pair were playful and smiley as they hit the shops on a sunny California day.

Big brother Hermés, 3, was not spotted with the gorgeous duo.

Kelly filed for divorce from the kids' father, German businessman Daniel Giersch, when she was just three months pregnant with Helena.

Childbirth can be a scary prospect for many first-time moms-to-be, but Gossip Girl star Kelly Rutherford has a few tips for those whose delivery dates are looming.

The 41-year-old mom-of-two recommends “meditating, getting quiet and talking to your baby" throughout the pregnancy. Also, she tells Hollywoodlife.com, start “visualizing how you want your birth to go, visualizing the baby in the right position and visualizing a healthy birth."

Kelly, who is mom to kids Hermes, 3, and Helena, 9 months, reveals that childbirth was a more positive experience the second time around. So what made the difference?

“I had a lot more support and it made it a lot easier,” she says. “I had a mid-wife with me, even though I delivered at the hospital. I had someone with me that I knew knew what was going on. It was really, really helpful.”

Having emerged from a difficult divorce from her husband of 2 years Daniel Giersch, actress Kelly Rutherford is finding hope and happiness in her kids Hermes, 3, and Helena, 9 months. The Gossip Girl star recently chatted to Working Mother magazine about the challenges of marriage and motherhood, and the lessons she's learned along the way.

On the pressures faced by today's working moms-to-be: "We work up until the last minute, whether we’re throwing up or not! Then we’re expected to give birth in two seconds or we get a C-section, because doctors are in a rush. We barely sleep the first months of our child’s life, but we’re expected to get back into our skinny jeans right away."

On her advice to working moms: "Figure out how you can help remedy the situation. Maybe it means making sure your baby is well cared for. You need to figure out what kind of mom you want to be and then find a way to be that mom. My mom worked, but it felt like she was always there for us."

On her custody case: "A male judge who was retiring after spending his entire career in family law didn’t agree with me that it was important for Hermes to be able to bond with his baby sister. I hope that as more women become judges—and as more divorced women become judges—the family courts will change."

So cute! Gossip Girl star Kelly Rutherford and her adorable 9-month-old daughter Helena Grace Giersch attended the Bunny Hop charity event at F.A.O Schwartz in New York City on Tuesday (March 9). Big brother Hermés was not spotted with the gorgeous duo.

Kelly filed for divorce from Daniel Giersch when she was just three months pregnant with Helena. The 41-year-old mother of two recently said she's not ready to start dating just yet.

[Dating] is not really my focus at the moment. If it happens, great, but I have the two most beautiful little ones, a great job, and it's really all-consuming."

Kelly Rutherford and her adorable 6-month-old daughter Helena were spotted getting a coffee at the Brentwood Country Mart in Brentwood, Calif on Sunday (January 3).

The color-coordinated duo are reunited after Helena spent New Year's Eve with Kelly's estranged ex-husband, Daniel Giersch.

Kelly, who filed for divorce when she was just three months pregnant with Helena, was recently granted a temporary restraining order against Daniel. The 41-year-old Gossip Girl star claimed that the German entrepreneur has repeatedly harassed her and her family.

Kelly and Daniel are also parents to 3-year-old son Hermés.

Kelly Rutherford's ex-husband Daniel Giersch stopped by her Los Angeles home to pick up their 6-month-old daughter Helena on New Year's Eve 2009.

Kelly, who filed for divorce when she was just three months pregnant with Helena, was recently granted a temporary restraining order against Daniel. The 41-year-old Gossip Girl star claimed that the German entrepreneur has repeatedly harassed her and her family.

Kelly and Daniel are also parents to 3-year-old son Hermés.

With her difficult divorce from her ex Daniel Giersch now behind her, Gossip Girl star and mom-of-two Kelly Rutherford admits that she's wary of jumping back into the dating scene.

“I guess if it was an incredible person, but you know when you have kids, you’re so picky,” the 41-year-old actress tells OK!. “That’s the thing – it changes things a lot. You’re not just thinking about how you would relate to somebody, you’re thinking about how your children would relate to someone. It’s a whole different thing.”